I don’t feel like making art today. I’m posting a picture taken from my local newspaper article a couple of years back, with Kramer my cat on the chair beside me, always believing he belonged wherever the attention was directed.
I came home today after school to find my cat of twelve years dead in his bed. I knew all day this was going to happen. When I entered the kitchen this morning, he only opened his eyes and looked at me, then closed them again. He never got up for breakfast. Never even raised his head. Made no sound. Always before, he howled and yowled at breakfast time, as I could never get his food out fast enough to suit him. I knew. He looked good when I came home and found him, the same way I left him, curled tightly with that seeming grin on his face. I once read that fatigue was the cat’s favorite pillow.
I called the vet to ensure that the city was O.K. with burial of pets on our property, as long as they are at least a foot under the ground. Kramer loved the tree in the backyard, and ususally hung out next to this sculpture purchased in San Angelo about ten years ago. So, he rests beneath the tree now, and the sculpture has become his headstone. The Man Cave is different now, because he’s not sleeping in the chair beside me.
Rest in peace, little friend. We had a dozen good years together.
Thanks for reading.
June 4, 2013 at 4:40 pm |
Dr. Tripp, I’m so very sorry for your loss.
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June 4, 2013 at 4:52 pm |
Thank you for your comfort. I appreciate you.
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June 4, 2013 at 5:10 pm |
He has a permanent sunning spot now, David, and he’s still with you. I would have liked to have known Kramer.
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June 4, 2013 at 5:25 pm |
Thank you. He was magnificent in his prime.
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June 4, 2013 at 5:23 pm |
The loss of a pet is so hard. I’m so sorry for your loss. Kramer’s resting place looks so serene with the dappled sunlight.
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June 4, 2013 at 5:25 pm |
Thank you. His resting place is lovely. Where he always stretched out in the sun.
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June 4, 2013 at 5:24 pm |
Such a handsome boy! Much sympathy (and empathy as I’ve been there before) to you and for the empty places he leaves. You chose a perfect spot for him. So very sorry for your loss…
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June 4, 2013 at 5:26 pm |
Thank you. Your words are a real comfort.
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June 4, 2013 at 6:54 pm |
David, I am very sorry to hear that. Always hard to lose a pet, and harder, I imagine, when he’s a painting companion. He sounds like a wonderful cat. Your comments remind me of my own cat who, while not quite the painting companion, can certainly wake the neighborhood when he’s hungry at 5 a.m. Best wishes.
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June 4, 2013 at 9:32 pm |
Thank you, Corey. My studio has certainly gotten quieter. Thanks for your good word.
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June 4, 2013 at 9:43 pm |
So sad for you to lose your beloved pet….Kramer looks gorgeous in the photo. my deepest sympathies because I know this is heartbreaking & you will miss him for a long time.
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June 5, 2013 at 8:20 am |
Thank you. The kitchen was certainly quiet this morning. It will take some getting used to.
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June 4, 2013 at 10:08 pm |
rest in peace. may you have much comfort from his memory and from all of nature around you.
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June 5, 2013 at 8:20 am |
Thank you.
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June 5, 2013 at 12:56 am |
It is so sad to loose a pet-friend. I send my condolences.
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June 5, 2013 at 8:21 am |
Thank you. They do take up a large space in our daily lives.
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June 5, 2013 at 3:46 am |
I too am sorry for your loss. My cat Snug died years ago, and I still dream about him sometimes.
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June 5, 2013 at 9:57 pm |
I hope the dreams are a comfort. I’m sorry to hear of your loss. Thanks for your kind word.
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June 6, 2013 at 12:40 pm
Thank you for your words. Most times the dreams are a comfort. I think I’ll always love him. I imagine you feel the same way. It took years before I was ready for another cat. Snug will always be special to me.
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June 5, 2013 at 7:24 am |
So sorry to hear about Kramer. It is sad when a loved pet passes on – it sounds as though he had a good life, and you will have lots to thank him for. We too are mourning the loss of our dog Raffiki who ran off into the bush on Easter Sunday and just never returned. We like to think he is still “out there” but we miss him badly. My sympathy and empathy. Tony
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June 5, 2013 at 8:22 am |
Thank you, Tony. And my heart goes out to you as well on your loss. It gets pretty still when they’re no longer around.
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June 5, 2013 at 9:50 am |
lo siento; i’m so sorry that your painting companion will no longer ride copilot in your studio. kramer was a beautiful cat and was obviously well loved. may you find positive ways to dodge your grief…
z
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June 5, 2013 at 9:51 am |
Thank you. He had a rough time the past 6 months, but before that, it felt good to have him curl up in the director’s chair next to my drafting stool while I painted. I miss that.
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June 5, 2013 at 10:45 am |
I’m so, so sorry! You chose a beautiful resting spot!
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June 5, 2013 at 9:57 pm |
Thank you. He loved it there. I’m glad to see the marker where he used to stretch out under the tree.
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June 5, 2013 at 12:56 pm |
David, I was so sorry to read about the death of your beautiful cat. For such little things, pets certainly fill large spaces. He was obviously well-loved in a world often cruel to animals. Thank you for that. My deepest sympathies.
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June 5, 2013 at 9:58 pm |
Thank you for the comforting word. Yes, for such small creatures, they do occupy a larger-than-expected space. I do notice the void now that he used to fill.
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June 6, 2013 at 7:21 am |
Sorry David. Pets are like family after awhile. My daughter’s cat loves her dearly and gently paws her face when LJ talks to her. It is a sorrow. I wish you peace.
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June 6, 2013 at 8:15 am |
Thanks, Mark. My cat wasn’t a “bonding” cat until his last few years. There’s nothing like it, and I miss the feel. He got really sick these past few months, and I’m glad to know he’s now at rest.
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June 6, 2013 at 9:05 pm |
So sorry for your loss. I know words don’t mean much at a time like this. You are a man of many creative talents. Art, music and the written word. It has been my experience that people like you that are so creative and kind hearted also feel loss deeply. I hope time will pass quickly to where you only remember the happy moments with your friend and companion and the hurt will fade to the background. It’s been an honor getting to know you at work my friend. You bring out the positive thoughts in people. That’s a gift.
Gary
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June 8, 2013 at 11:33 am |
Gary, you’ve been such an inspiration to me this past school year, and I could never thank you enough for all the encouragement you gave freely. I wish you the best this summer, and thanks always for the way you’ve inspired me to keep the blog flowing.
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June 9, 2013 at 10:28 pm
Thanks so much. You are an amazing artist and your blog has given me hours of fun. Keep on keeping on my friend. You’re providing a great service for art lovers worldwide. One of the things I love about you blog is after a hard day it’s such a peaceful place to unwind.
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June 13, 2013 at 7:49 pm
Thanks so much. As for myself, I am truly uplifted when I come home at the end of the day and find such affirming comments waiting for me on the blog. I’m touched by them all.
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June 9, 2013 at 10:21 am |
it sounds like he had a peaceful trip home, though the small kitty gate to heaven.. now without pain.
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June 13, 2013 at 7:41 pm |
Thank you, Connie. I could not have asked for a smoother exit than he did. I just hope it was a peaceful sleep.
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